The reality is you will grieve forever. You will not 'get over' the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same again. Nor should you be the same again, nor should you want to.
I don't miss you because you're gone. Quite the opposite in fact. I miss you because you are here, every minute of every day, in my heart, in my thoughts, in my veins. I don't miss you because I want you back. I miss you because you never truly left.